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有些時候對話呢是開頭易,結尾難。藉由肢體傳達,像是運用眼神、微笑、握手,還有說再見,讓對話結束更有親和力。還有一種方式就是取得對允許,給人良好印象,並且告知對方繼續保持聯繫。
肢體語言通常可以禮貌地結束一場對話。例如:你可以經常看手錶還是準備將包包肩上,如果都行不通,你可以停止發問。一般我們可以說"I’d better let you go"(你可以離開了),讓對方能夠開心的離開。
這裡提供一個情境Jerry與Tom正在交談,但是Tom即將要去開會。
Jerry: Hey Tom, how are you?(Jerry嗨,Tom,你好嗎?)
Tom: I'm good! Thank you for asking! (Tom:我很好!謝謝你的關心!)
Jerry: I can't believe you fell on your face yesterday. (Chuckling) (Jerry:我無法相信昨天你跌得狗吃屎。(笑著))
Tom: Neither can I, but what can I say, my laces were untied. (Tom:我也是,我能說什麼?鞋帶沒綁好。)
Jerry: (Laughing) But that explains why you fell so hard. You got up so quickly though, that was even more hilarious. It was like watching a James Bond movie gone wrong. (Jerry:(哈哈)你跌得還不輕,更好笑得是你立即站起來,就像是007電影爆笑版。)
Tom: (Looks at the watch) I was hoping no one saw me! (Tom:(看一下手錶)我希望沒有人在看我!)
Jerry: Are you kidding? We all saw you! What were you thinking not tying your shoelaces? (Jerry:你開玩笑,我們都看到了!你為什麼沒綁鞋帶呢?)
Tom: Listen, sorry, I would love to chat with you but I have a meeting to get to. (Tom:聽著,不好意思,我很想跟你聊下去,但是我要去開會了。)
Jerry: Ok I'll see you soon then, I hope the meeting goes well. (Jerry:好的,待會見,希望會議順利。)
Tom: Me too!! (Tom:我也希望!!)
誠實為成功之母,人們都能理解,如果你能適時告訴他們該結束對話。
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